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The Cost of Staying Small: Why Muscle Matters for Women in Midlife
Has anyone ever said something that made you so angry you’re still thinking about it almost a year later?
Last summer, I was helping a family member with an estate sale. My sister-in-law and I were selling a heavy workbench to a man. When he was ready to move it to his truck, he looked at the two of us and asked:
“Is there a man around who can help me move this?”
Melissa Monroe, Pn1
Mar 34 min read


Consistency Over Perfection: Why Boring Habits Actually Work
A few years ago, a friend showed me a habit tracker she absolutely loved. Each month was written out, with one spot for every day of the month — January had 31 dots, February had 28, and so on. Every day she completed her habit, she colored in a dot. She called it the “Stupid F*ing Dots” (or SFD for short), and it really helped her exercise consistently. She found something that worked for her, and I was genuinely happy for her. But it also made me realize something uncomfort
Melissa Monroe, Pn1
Feb 23 min read


When Diet Culture Broke Our Relationship with Food (and How to Fix It)
When I was growing up, I was called “chubby,” which was apparently a perfectly acceptable word to use in the 80s. I was embarrassed that my jeans were “Pretty Plus” sizes. My mom was always going on a diet, and most of the time, my sister and I went on the diet with her. When I was in middle school, my mom and I went on a road trip with my aunt. My mom forgot to tell her that we were both “on a diet,” so she brought a grocery bag full of junk food for the road. My aunt was so
Melissa Monroe, Pn1
Dec 9, 20254 min read
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